I want you to know that I am not placing blame on your husband's behavior but I am going to ask you a few questions.
Are you staying home with your son?
Do you get out of bed each morning, dress, put on some make up, shower, etc.?
Do you provide a loving, clean and inviting body for him?
If all those things are there, have you talked to him at all about how you feel?
I would plan a nice dinner, get a babysitter, and take HIM out on a romantic date.
Get his outfit ready, put it out for him to change into, leave little notes around, then have him MEET YOU at the spot, a restaurant with a bar would be nice. Be at the bar waiting for him, in a nice dress, nice hair, nice make up, treat him nice, romance him.
If after you do that he still treats you the same way, confront him and ask him what is wrong. Tell him you need him as your Husband and be very specific about what you expect and need. Men do not speak code very well.
If you say you want affection they might just pat you on your head and go back to watching the game.
If you say You want Sex, and to Make Love, and to be Romanced you may get part of that
. They do want to please.
Some men do have a really hard time when they see you loving your baby so much, they feel in the way, replaced, and unloved. You may be shocked that he is feeling unloved, unattractive, and scared to death too.
If these things do not work, get some professional help. Nothing is wrong with doing that.
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