Did you fall in love with your someone special right away, or did it take time for the love to grow?

Which has the longest chance of survival?
I personally think a slow, long term relationship has the best chance.

One look at him and I knew. That was seven years ago, and two break-ups. Three's a charm right.

Depends on how hard you both try.

Awesome. dmichelle, sounds like you guys have a good thing going.

For me and my girlfriend i say it was definitely love at first sight. For both of us ;o)

I knew right away that there was a powerful connection but it did take a little while for me to realize that this connection was true love. Once I realized it though, it instantly blossomed into a magical feeling that I make sure to nurture every single day. Mine is a love that grows stronger with every passing moment and for which I am eternally grateful.

Personally, I think relationships that have the best chance for long-term survival have less to do with how they began and a lot more to do with how they are maintained. Relationships that consist of honesty, respect, clear and consistent communication and a genuine appreciation for each other will undoubtedly fare better than those that lack these qualities or that are taken for granted.