logo
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 10
J
Jen.L Offline OP
Newbie
OP Offline
Newbie
J
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 10
Hey there,

My hubby is a Recovering Alcoholic for 6 years and we just had a baby on 12/25. I know this is crazy . . . but I am jealous that he "gets" to go out and be social and go to meetings 1-2 times a week. These are his regular groups and friends so I know he needs it and needs to be with others but I get a bit jealous when he leaves.

I haven't been out w/ a friend since she was born . . . I know once we settled in that can happen but I just had to say this and was glad there was a forum here for me to do it!

Thanks for reading and listening.


~Jenny
Mom to Reese, Born 12/25
Sponsored Post Advertisement
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 22,934
Likes: 4
BellaOnline Editor
Highest Posting Power Known to Humanity
Offline
BellaOnline Editor
Highest Posting Power Known to Humanity
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 22,934
Likes: 4
Every person needs a support group - *especially* new mothers!! Many new mothers join breastfeeding groups and such to meet weekly and share advice. Maybe you can do something like that?


Lisa Shea, Low Carb and Video Games Editor
Low Carb Forum
Joined: Sep 2005
Posts: 7,189
BellaOnline Editor
Chimpanzee
Offline
BellaOnline Editor
Chimpanzee
Joined: Sep 2005
Posts: 7,189
Also, there is Al-Anon for family members of alcholics and drug addicts. This was brought about because so many family members had their own issues dealing with their spouses addictions.

Here's the national link to find one in your area if you are interested:
Al-Anon/Alateen


Michelle Taylor
Marriage Editor
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 22,934
Likes: 4
BellaOnline Editor
Highest Posting Power Known to Humanity
Offline
BellaOnline Editor
Highest Posting Power Known to Humanity
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 22,934
Likes: 4
That's an excellent point Michelle, and that can be helpful in many ways!


Lisa Shea, Low Carb and Video Games Editor
Low Carb Forum
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 10
J
Jen.L Offline OP
Newbie
OP Offline
Newbie
J
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 10
I always think about going to AL-Anon, but only went as a Teen (my Dad used to drink very excessivly) BUT I have to agree that joining a weekly group that I will have something in common w/ the other is a good idea (not just an alcoholic husband :-P

Thanks for reading and posting!


~Jenny
Mom to Reese, Born 12/25
Joined: Mar 2007
Posts: 172
K
BellaOnline Editor
Jellyfish
Offline
BellaOnline Editor
Jellyfish
K
Joined: Mar 2007
Posts: 172
Jen, First of all, kudos to your husband for 6 years sobriety and to you also for giving him the support that he feels comfortable going to meetings. The fact that you have a new baby says that you are probably both in the right place. I am not sure that you will get what you need from Al-Anon (although that is always a good idea) than you will get from a new mom's group. Talking about an addiction is healthy but it sounds that you need something healthy just for you and your baby. Your husband is doing what he can to get well and you must be well also. So, find those mommy groups, share your experiences with your husband, honor his commitment to his meetings and just be important to each other!

Kathy L.
12 Step Recovery Editor

Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 22,934
Likes: 4
BellaOnline Editor
Highest Posting Power Known to Humanity
Offline
BellaOnline Editor
Highest Posting Power Known to Humanity
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 22,934
Likes: 4
I do agree completely with Kathy that if you have a new baby probably your main support would work best if it was baby-related. That way you could get lots of discussion and help with the baby care smile


Lisa Shea, Low Carb and Video Games Editor
Low Carb Forum

Moderated by  Kathy - 12 Step Recovery 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Brand New Posts
2024 - on this day in the past ...
by Mona - Astronomy - 03/29/24 10:15 AM
Inspiration Quote
by Angie - 03/28/24 03:28 PM
Psalm for the day
by Angie - 03/28/24 03:26 PM
Make It Sew Easier
by Cheryl - Sewing Editor - 03/27/24 04:34 PM
Planner Template Kit - Weekly Layout Template
by Digital Art and Animation - 03/26/24 07:39 PM
Planner Template Kit - Yearly Layout Template
by Digital Art and Animation - 03/26/24 07:37 PM
How to Use Digital Planner Template Kit
by Digital Art and Animation - 03/26/24 07:36 PM
Review - 20 Illustrator Color tips Helen Bradley
by Digital Art and Animation - 03/26/24 07:32 PM
March Equinox to June Solstice
by Mona - Astronomy - 03/26/24 12:27 PM
Hobotrader unleashes never seen opportunity with i
by Jamal molla - 03/26/24 11:55 AM
Sponsor
Safety
We take forum safety very seriously here at BellaOnline. Please be sure to read through our Forum Guidelines. Let us know if you have any questions or comments!
Privacy
This forum uses cookies to ensure smooth navigation from page to page of a thread. If you choose to register and provide your email, that email is solely used to get your password to you and updates on any topics you choose to watch. Nothing else. Ask with any questions!


| About BellaOnline | Privacy Policy | Advertising | Become an Editor |
Website copyright © 2022 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.


Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5