Um, NO. Your wife doesn't have a disorder. She's making whacked-out excuses (like "I tell you everything so there's nothing going on behind your back") for having a relationship. Even when there is no phone or physical relationship, people can have affairs of the heart, which is what is going on.
Your wife, frankly, needs to get her act straight, stop making excuses like having the flavor-of-the-month disorder, and either nuture a full relationship with you devoid of other fantasies or get the hell out.
Jeez..."DD"...that's a new one. Whenever I want to gloss over a poor behavior, I'm going to use that one:
"No officer, it wasn't me speeding. It was 'DD.' I have a disorder, you see, and it's not really me doing it."
"Hey honey, now that you understand about 'DD,' it's okay to screw another man, right? I mean, it's not really me of course, and...you can watch! That way, there's nothing going on behind your back."
I think people can have disorders, but my grip on reality and games women pull keeps me planted in skepticism. Especially with this wild card.
Last edited by Angela P; 01/08/08 08:16 PM.