ok so I was over at a friends house and they have 5 kids total to foster two hers and he has 2 boys but ones in collage so...I didnt count him.
anyways I said something about I didnt see how she keeps her sanity and she looks at me and smiles and said "You think I am sane? maybe it just because I live in a madhouse?" lol I told her that I sometimes wish that my husband and I had a child and she said " well Which one of my hellions can I let you have? I bet with in 4 hours you bring them back!" and we laughed.
She didnt tell me the blessed joy of mommyhood or how it was all worth it or the joys of pregnancy! she didnt even lecture me with the I told you so See I knew you would change your mind NOTHING!
but she didnt give me the oh you would never be a good mom speach either.
I dont think I want kids of my own because of my health and also I just dont want to bring a baby into the world with the way thinks are going.... But I think adopting a child would be ok. but later when me and hubby are on our feet and can afford to adopt a child. or not I am happy borrowing my friends kids all five for 6 whole hours!!!
dont tell my friend but that was enough to change anyones mind!!! lol but they are great kids its just that many is a handful even if they are saints and angels!
