Thanks Ingilbert. This forum has been great for helping me to recognise what these moments are. ie they are not a deep sign from the universe that I need to have a baby immediately!
I think they could actually be more hormonal at times then anything else.
The reality is that while you see those kids playing on the beach so nicely, when they get home, they are probably hell on wheels. Your only seeing half the story.
When I look at babies now, I don't feel the baby lust anymore, I think about things like changing diapers, the smell, the laundrey that had to be done, the crying...I did well with her when she was born 10 years ago but I am past all that now.