Hello,
I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through. I agree with Iwonder telling you that he doesn't really want you but when someone else does then he wants you. He is playing games with you. He needs to work on his own problems. I would not spend time with him. You are doing much better without him. Then for him to make a remark that you would not loose weight for him. That is a tacky thing to say. I'm sure you did it for yourself.
This stuff he wants to only be friends without a relationship..I would not put up with that. To me it is as if he wants things very open to do what he wants to do. Yet when you get on with your life & date he gets jealous & is trying to control you. Don't allow him to decide if you both get back together or not. You have the power to decide what is best for your life with or without him. I would move on & not worry about his problems. To me it sounds like he does not know what he wants & he does not want you to get on with your life. Maybe he just wants you there for him waiting around for what ever he decides at the moment. That is no good for you. I hope that everyone has a good Memorial weekend. It is raining in Chicago all day! Judy K.
