Hello Everyone,
I'm very new to this forum thing and want to blow off some steam too.
Well,I've been married for 5 years to a military man. I have two beautiful children but there not his, hoped that we would have a child together but lost the baby 3 years back. But that's another story in itself. Well, I knew that marriage was hard work because I watched my parents do it for 37 years. When I married my husband , he was sweet, nice, gentleman, and very loving to my children and me. He still is loving to my kids but not to me. We have been on this roller coaster of emotions the both of us. I try to work things out in our marriage but it seems like he don't want to. Also, duriing the years I've been married it seems like I lost my own identity...I use to be very independent, outgoing, fun, and confident but longer I'm in this marriage the more I lose out. It's hard to be with someone that wants a person to be one way then when they are then leave them. Well anyway, he asked for a divorce and I told him yes. But he hasn't done anything like filing the paper. If he won't then I will but I still love him. I feel like this...I want the man I fell so in love with six years ago but he doesn't exist anymore. I feel betrayed, stupid for falling for him, cheated on but not proof it....used like a old shoes and thrown away. I believe that I will bounce back after all this is over but feel that I wouldn't be able to trust anyone again because this is my first marriage and it failed. Sorry so long...but I would appreciate any replies...thanks for just reading.
Last edited by dyamondz01; 05/08/07 10:36 PM.