Good explanation Kelli.

Thanks for explaining, CD and Kelli.

I don't really know that a blog is my kind of thing. I rarely write for myself. I used to have to keep a journal, as part of my therapy, but I don't think I would want to put anything on a web site.

I don't mind though, CD, if you want to copy my poems - as long as you mark them as copyright - in case anyone copies them and publishes them as theirs!

Love to you both,

Patience.

I want you to have a blog .
I can set it up for you.
You can copy all the posts you aere making.
A blog can reach millions and can help spread love and care.
I will send a mail to Ann.

my husband and I are young. We kiss hug, grab eachothers butts and show each other signs of affection. Granted our children are still young and yes they see us. So what do you do if a child is just curious b/c they saw mommy and daddy smacking each others butts?

I'm not really sure how to answer this question because I don't know how young your children are. If the question comes up with your children, as far as your hitting each others behinds, always keep in mind that it is best to explain it at an age appropriate level. It sounds like this is something you do with your husband as a display of affection, which tells me you don't hit each other in an angry way or too hard. But, you also don't want your children to go around slapping someone else's behind because they think it is appropriate. I hope this answers your question.

Patience,

Your writing is good. Today.com where I blog is looking for bloggers. I think you can blog under a pen-name. It is an important topic. You would get paid $5 a post for the first month at least and then they evaluate if the site is doing good and do a combo of pay-per-post and revenue. PM me if you want more info.

cd, you write great too.

midjet, I think they say it is very healthy for children to see their parents interact in loving ways. They feel loved when the parents are loving to each other.

I think if they learn how healthy relationships work and how the ways we show love are not "secret" or "hidden" I think it can reinforce our lesson that anybody that hides affection or tries to keep a secret could be doing something bad.

One thing to note about sexual preditors is they try to prey on kids who also have problems at home. So if we are in a loving relationship that only helps us more.