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#298010 03/09/07 11:55 AM
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I met a very nice girl at a coffee shop the other day. My friend was with me and he liked her too. I went back out with her the other evening and my friend came along as well-I invited him. It is obvious to me that my friend likes this girl too. I have not made plans for this evening but want to just take her our solo; though I don't want to hurt my friends feelings. Maybe I should just not mention anything to him. Any suggestions????

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Asking soneone out doesn't mean you're planning a permanent relationships. But if your friend also seems to like her, you may want to openly mention your interest in the girl to him, but add that your friendship with him is also important, and that you don't want to do something that might jeopardize that. It's not a love triangle unless you make it one by keeping secrets.

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Yes, keeping it secret may cause more problems.

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Sure, I agree about hiding secrets. My friend it turns out is seeking something totally different and retrospectively I see that I was really just concerned about what has materialized into a non-issue... Regardless, thanks for the input...

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That is good.


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