Wow, what a great husband you have, Brandy! How sweet and touching; if only they could all be so thoughtful.
We all get caught up in those images of perfection we see in the media and even on the streets. I think expecting a woman to look the same after baby may be a little immature. A man like that isn't looking at his wife as a mother, nurturer, care giver, partner, etc etc -- he's looking at her as a body. I don't mean to slag your hubby Biscuitgirl, but I wish he'd see you for what you are: the mother of his children, the love of his life, the keeper of the home, the caregiver of everyone you love!
I don't think it's as easy as just getting over it (your perception of your body). Loving and accepting who you are now, in your entirety, may be a lifelong process as your body gives way to gravity and age....
You are not your appearance! You are your soul, personality, intelligence, creativity -- your appearance is a small fraction of who you are as a woman!