Just the thread I need

When I began my online business a few months ago I adopted another online name...this one, because I needed a seperation between my rather ad hoc, ADD and 'away with the fairies' attitude and a professional (read more grown up) one so I would remain focused on work . I have been known around the web as DoonaFairy for many many years and had a fantastic online social life ..had. Since changing my online name (I do still use my original one in my old haunts)I've noticed a full turn around and seem to be having nothing but a pretty darn hard time of it in my online relationships. I wonder if its because my focus is on "dusty" instead of "doona", or because I'm just not available at the drop of a hat anymore or what? I have been having my awareness guided to this for a couple of weeks. So what do you think...could it be my name change?