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I will try to explain what I mean. Say you and you wife agree that this is a good idea and both of you want to try it. What if you notice that she is having too much fun? Much more fun than you are having. And you think that you may be losing her, so you want to stop. What if she really likes it and doesn't want to stop. What do you do? And the longer this continues, to more problems you will have. It's hard enough to get two people to agree on anything, four people seems impossible.
But I think like you, this is crazy. Maybe we need to hear from people who have made this work. Thanks for your post, conniem. In your earlier post you said you know some swingers. Why not tell me about them?
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cdmohatta,
So now what do you think?
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Oh, the swingers I know are regular people, work hard, married a long time with 2 children. They don't tell everyone, just close friends, but it's no secret, and they talk about it openly.
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Oh, the swingers I know are regular people, work hard, married a long time with 2 children. They don't tell everyone, just close friends, but it's no secret, and they talk about it openly. They have no issues about which you were speaking?
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LOL!
I don't think swinging is new, having other partners when married is not new. Being so open and comfortable is newer in this day and age.
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What are your issues with premarital sex and multiple partners?
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I am trying to understand the psychology.
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You are entitled to not engage in premarital sex and sex with multiple partners, you are entitled to detest those activities, I think. I am just curious about your feelings and thoughts on premarital sex and multiple partners.
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Cdmohatta,dont mind my asking but u seem to be very interested in such issues.one is abt incest and another abt prostituition and so on...
another usert has also pointed this out.u sy u r in ur 50's..why are u concerned abt these people's pshychology?
The world is degrading day by day.No morals and no traditions are valued anymore by many or most.I do not think its possible to undestand these things and why people do these things.Its their wish and esp when it comes to prostituition and swinging most of them are adults.they know what they r doing,right?
am just surprised all ur posts are related to issues like this.i also see some in the spirituality section and u seem to know so much of that.
as i said no offense.
Time is precious.Don't waste it.
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Learning to count your blessings will help you to smile more :-)
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I am interested in many issues such as bad treatment of parents etc. But that is mainly an Indian issue so I can not discuss that here.
Prostitution has a personal connection with me. So I want to explore it.
Swinging etc. I am only keen because I can not believe that such things can happen. I belong to a school where one man lives with a woman for lifetime without thinking about another woman and vice versa. I am not against divorce but I stronly support morality. Infidelity is a criime for me.
My very major interest is thoughts of Hinduism. How Guru works etc. But no use discussing here.
Another issue with which I work in India is orphans, widows, women's abuse and anything else that hurts my soul.
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