Well first I would say to forget about this guy for now. Unless you think he is going to hurt himself because of his depression, and then you should get him some help, but this guy doesn't seem to be much of guy at all. Right now you are going through one of the hardest things you could go through and you don't need the added stress of him. You two are so young you have the rest of your lives to have a baby, but you only have right now to enjoy being 18 and doing all the things you want. Plus, if you were to get pregnant again and have the same misfortune, it would be 100 times harder the second time around. I too lost a baby recently and I was 17 weeks, it has been the hardest thing I have ever gone through. I never thought I would make it, but I did because I knew that I wasn't alone in this and millions of women have been through this same thing, and I realized that talking to some of these women, they could relate and helped me get through it. Go to you local churches and ask around for support groups for this kinda thing or even find a therapist or counselor who will talk to you about you lose. My prayers are with you. Hang in there, it will get better.