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A 29 years old Malaysian Muslim guy found out that he is belong to a Buddhist family and grown up in Muslim family because hospital failure when he born and now try to change his religion to Buddhism.

What will be your reaction if have same situation?

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Most of us will try the same.

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oh yeah you right or at least think about it hardly and will see some changes in our mentality.
it's not just about religion. it include ethnic groups too.
What happened to Jewish prophet Moses when found out that belong to another ethnic group?

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As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.

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That is a strange question for me to answer. My mother was a Quaker and my Grandmother on my father's side was a Romanian Gypsy. I grew up amid Tarot cards and the Bible. I had close family members who were Christian Scientists, Baptists, and Mormons. My first boyfriend was an orthodox Jew, and my best friends are Wiccan and Buddhist. From the time I was a toddler I have been exposed to a good many different religions and beliefs. I find them all fascinating.

No one in my family was a Unitarian Universalist, but when I visited a U.U. Church it felt right to me and fit my already existing spiritual plethora of belief. I know that I could not commit myself to any one belief system... because there are too many others out there to explore and research. And, every one of them is interesting and enlightening in it's own right.

I have a wonderful Christian friend who is going through a horrible time at the moment. Her 21 year old son came home and told her that he was a Pagan. She prayed and conjoled and begged and pleaded with him to renew his faith. He told her that he had no faith in what she believed and that he never had. She came to me for advice, and I told her that he was still her son no matter what he believed. And, that if a loving parent could love and cherish her son in spite of his different beliefs; than wouldn't that mean that a loving parent such as God could love and cherish his children also in spite of what they believed?

I know she feels better about it now. And, she and her son are working to find the things that their beliefs have in common, and not so much on the things that they do not. It has been a surprising journey for both of them. She has found out that Pagans are not devil worshippers, and he has found out that Jesus was a pretty interesting man, and that his teachings were not just pertinent to some humans,but to all humans.

In short, I don't think it really matters what you call yourself. It is what is in your heart and soul that matters. Religion is just a word.. it is not WHAT you are. WHAT you are is a beautiful and cherished being worthy of love and compassion.

Love and Light.. Linda


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Your friend is distressed because she realizes her son has strayed from the truth and is in danger of going to hell. God does love us all regardless of our beliefs but He only gives eternal life to those who repent, accept Christ, and follow His commandments.

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To answer our question, Babak, and trying to keep this on-topic for you (!) Religion IS a heritage from parents.

Most children are baptised into the faith of their parents at a very early age. This is frankly ludicrous. You wouldn't register your baby as a Republican or Democrat, Conservative, Labour or Liberal, at birth, thus enforcing a specific set of Governmental or political views upon them! Everyone chooses their politics when they can actively discuss, comprehend and decide for themselves. And even then, you have to be of a mature age to cast your vote and to make a difference! Some people don't ascribe to politics, parties or voting....

Why then, is it deemed accepable to impose a Religion upon a person, and expect them to adhere throughout their lives, simply on the say-so of elders? It's not logical. And the amount of atheists, agnostics, and people converting to other faiths, philosophies or disciplines, bears this out. I am a case in point. So are the majority of Western Buddhists. I do not, nor ever would claim to speak for them, but I use Buddhism as an ilustrative point, because that's what I practise.

Does this young man also find himself with different parents to the ones he was born to?
Would changing his religion cause 'political' upheaval? That is to say, would it be frowned upon by the leaders of the county? Could he 'convert' easily, or is it fraught with difficulties?

Wow, what a difficult place to find yourself in - !

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Parents have the absolute right to teach their own children the faith they follow. If you forfeit that right then you open your children to making the choice themselves and you give others the right to try and influence that choice. You give fundamentalist Christians the right to evangelize your kids. Do you want that?

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Spirituality,
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