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my husband died in a car accident in April..
I had a dream shortly after that he came home, pulled in driveway in the truck(which was totalled), It looked fine but there were lil toys on the dash, very weird.. He walked in the house ,Me and my kids were so happy, We went into our bedroom where we cuddled, made love and after I was telling him that we thought he died and how good he looked at the funeral I ran to my desk and pulled out the guestbook,a page was ripped where people signed their names, i was so angry about that. I showed him.. and he said..Its like you dont know, but the kids do. I heard a knock on the door and he was saying it was time to go, I was begging him not to leave, he said he had to, I got to the door and it was church people I was rude said i was busy and he walked outside and he was gone.. I woke up my heart racing, my body shaking, I jumped up ran to his death guestbook, the page was not ripped, This dream felt soooo real.. but the page was not torn.. I would of never thought of it as a dream if the page was torn.. please help me analyze my dream..

I think loved ones that have passed over do reach out to us in our dreams. When we sleep our usual 'filters' are down & we are easier to reach. I'd treat this as a real visit that has been 'embroidered' with other details by your dreaming mind.

Parthena had several moving dream experiences following the death of her partner.

Dear Rain,
I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's accident. I agree with Lauren that this was a real visit and that he had specifically come to help you deal with the reality of his death. It sounds like the funeral was the pivotal point- the church people at the door to bring reality home, the torn page that maybe demonstrated that you would rather forget or remove the event from your memory. That you accepted him back alive and even remarked that he had looked good at the funeral makes me think that he needed to lovingly remind you that you need to let him go. What a wonderful last gift to you though- to be held and loved.
There are small comforts to be had aren't there?
Hang in there. <img src="/images/graemlins/heart.gif" alt="" />

i think you had a visit from your husband to let you no he's alright and that you will be too. that he's waiting for you and you'll one day be together again.