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Good.

I know everyone has failures. People who try more and are willing to take risks probably have more failures, but also more successes.

I've heard it said that so long as you learn from each failure, it isn't really a failure.

I think too often i compare myself to what i think i should be able to do or where i should be. I'm disguising where i want to be as if i should already be there, but life is a path, not an ending. I'm confusing wants with shoulds. Better would be for me to change this and review my accomplishments and praise myself for what i do accomplish. I think a shift in perspective would help me to feel better and make it more enjoyable to move forward.

It is also, as you said, good to appreciate yourself for trying.

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I am surprised with you.
After reading your posts , I feel that you are a very intelligent person. We began this thread about- how will you get greater happiness.

I feel that you are as happy as others are. You are over analyzing yourself.

Your insights in the psyche are very deep and correct.
I think you need to do nothing more except enjoy what comes in life.

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What I do to improve my self esteem is, I always do a visualization every morning and nite.
Last time, it's difficult for me to speak on stage, I'm very afraid..but what I do is I project my self to be on stage, give a speak and everybody are give me an applause..
I do it again and again until the speaking day, and the result is that I feel comfortable when I'm on stage and the result is fantastic.. smile


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That is good idea.

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Herman, that is a wonderful idea! Thanks. I will use it!

cd, i have actually been climbing out of a time in my life when i was very unhappy. Many things happened about 5 or 6 years ago, bad things, and i was depressed and afraid for some time after that. I feel much better now, but i still am prone to sadness so i can't take happiness for granted, i have to work towards it and not dwell on things that will get me down. It would be much worse now if i didn't try each day to be cheery and positive. I am... okay... happiness doesn't often come naturally to me these days but i find things to appreciate, and one day it will again. smile

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I understand. sadness can not be wished away easily.

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I am working on two then it will be time to number one which hopefully will help me get to number three but even if I am never like that at least I will be free.

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Self esteem and self worth are intertwined. Here's a related article:

Self Worth - How to Increase it

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Originally Posted by JOY (Self Development)
Self esteem and self worth are intertwined. Here's a related article:

Self Worth - How to Increase it

Have you any 'tried and tested' tips for increasing self worth?

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