I liked your article about adult siblings and family interaction:
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art15373.aspI'm an adult and have a brother and sister. We share the same parents and are spread over 4 years in age so were raised in the same time period, but as adults we sure are different.
Looking back we all did differently in school and that influenced our choice of careers. If we again lived in the same house we would not have much to talk about except childhood, because we each developed into very different adults with dissimilar hobbies and lifestyles.
So, I can understand how one could feel left out.
I've come to accept them and love them as they are and not let it affect my self-esteem. Hey, we don't know the lessons another person is needing and learning, so I think that their paths are as valid as mine.
Anyone else have siblings very different from themselves?