Oh, and I forgot to reply to Emma007
(when you said) "I'm not sure that you should put your body through hormonal changes just to accommodate a guy's hangups; among other things, that'll make his dysfunction a permanent thing"
It's not an issue anymore, we talked about it, and he's a lot more confident about condoms I'd say, because he doesn't have any major issues using them when we have sex in the few days between me finishing a strip of pills and coming on my period.
So yeah, everything's good.