here is a much cited site giving you the info about the HSLDA and alternatives should you need free/low cost representation:
http://www.homeschoolingislegal.info/This is our 6th year homeschooling. In these 6 years I've been involved in local groups in two states with over 240 families. I know two families in real life who have had legal issues. For me only the "in real life" stories count, people I have met personally, face-to-face.
The first person was in trouble with the police because her 8 yr old daughter was outside playing alone. This goes a lot deeper than that, however. It comes down to the fact that the child was NOT being legally homeschooled. Her mother hadn't bothered to send in a letter of intent as required by the law nor did she enroll her child in am umbrella school or private tutoring. She intended to stay under the radar, she didnt count on a neighbor being a police officer (where we lived letting a child under the age of 12 alone & unsupervised for any reason was against local ordinances) The mother faxed her letter of intent hours after the initial problem with the police, the school district didnt cause any problems for her. She did call the HSLDA but they wouldn't represent her, nor should they have because she wasn't homeschooling legally. No charges were filed and nothing ever came of it except a nasty news story.
The second was a legally homeschooling family. The school was insisting the family didn't file a letter of intent but the family didn't have to as one child wasn't of comp. age. Florida has vague comp. education laws. In this case the family did need representation and they didnt mind the HSLDA's religious viewpoints. The HSLDA did help this family. They sent a nasty letter to the school and took on the family. I dont know if the family had to join or not, I didnt ask. The school district did subside. The family didnt want to join the HSLDA but it was to the point where the school district was demanding illegal portfolio evaluations.
There *is* a place for the HSLDA when it comes to homeschooling. I have no problem with the HSLDA's existance, but I do have a problem with a group who represents "all" homeschoolers and takes that and decides what I stand for.
When it comes to homeschooling it doesnt matter what I think about gay marriage or abortion or allowing women in India that they cannot use birth control. When it comes to homeschooling the only thing that matters is educating my children at home without interference. If the HSLDA would just stick to that it'd be swimming.
*sigh*