Hi all! I've searched and searched the Internet, and am glad I found this site.
My husband and I are at our wits' end!
My 3 year old son has gone potty at home about 6 times in the last 6 months. He knows the whole procedure (alerts us, pulls his pants down, "goes", wipes (we finish the wiping), pulls his pants up, empties his potty into the toilet, flushes, washes his hands, wipes his hands, turns out the bathroom light) and does them all very well.
Our problem is that he "won't" do it at home on a consistent basis. When he was in daycare, he went all the time. And now, at pre-school he "goes to the bathroom" (it's no longer "potty" for him) also on a regular basis. But when we try to get him to go at home, he runs and gets the diapers and wipes and lies down, ready for his change.
When we try to get him to go at home, he screams and protests so much, and for so long. We've tried putting him in underwear, and he just goes in the underwear and keeps playing. We've tried putting him on the potty, but there's such turmoil and then I get nervous that we're trying to "force" him to do what he doesn't want to do. (Dont's slam me on that last remark - it's truly the ONLY thing I give in on, because I'm feeling almost like we're abusing him - that's how bad it is...).
Please help!!!
Thanks!!!