Now I'm getting married to a 34 year old man and he is a sweet heart. I love him I couldnt ask for any thing more. He runs his own company from our home. He is always in work mode. He is willing to take care what he have to do. He works and I clean house, walk 3 blocks to the laundry mat and carry a wagon of 4 loads clothes down and back up 4 flights of stairs, I cook, balance the check book (money is always running in and out of the bank), balance the work book, tax book, I even work with him I'm also his assistant. I know he is busy working with 10 different companies and more then 5 different web designers. It looks like I do more then he does but we have almost the same amount of task when sit down and think about it. He does help with cooking once in a while and he does do dishes (not that great of a job but he does help in some way. I just hate doing the same thing over and over again. I have to say its kinda an even exchange. Its so hard for us we dont even have that much time for each other even thou we are in the same room together. We always talk about having kids but that is the last thing on his mind. He told me that running a business at home is his dream and having screaming kids in the back ground will kind of ruins it. I told him well the people you work with are just going to learn how to respect the fact that these are your kids and they are people too. Till one day I was on the phone with a web designer that had screaming boys in the back ground fighting and just going at it. It kinda made me wanna hang up. So right then I understood. But I told my fiance that the one mind man road will not work with me if I have to take care of the kids all by myself. When I ask for something its basiclly done after I say it.