Well you know I'd take heart from all of this <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> None of these things are insurmountable & if the bond remains strong you'll find a way to get together in the future.

As for the splitting of the friends...well I dated my future husband's friend before I started seeing him. (I'd wanted my husband since I met him, but thought he wasn't interested!) It didn't do their friendship much good either, but we were a couple for 17 years, so I don't feel too bad about that one <img src="/images/graemlins/angel.gif" alt="" />

Even though this man that I think is a twin flame isn't speaking to me I feel like my intution is telling me not to give up. However my brain tells me that it is just me "hoping for what I want" not really my inner voice. Then I think Why hasn't anyone else ever affected me this way? His birthday is Saturday and I want to email to wish him a happy one but I don't want to be pushy. I haven't heard from him in a month. What do other's think? Should I wish him a happy birthday or let him come back to me if he wants?

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He isn't speaking to me or any of his friends right now. I got an email from him stating "things weren't going to be too exciting for a while until I get my life back to normal" He had some drama in his life. On the other hand I look at it like if he was into me he would find time to email, call etc. I can't explain this pull I have towards this man in any other way to say it is a twin flame situation.

I don't want to be the crazy woman emailing him a happy birthday greeting. lol. All I know is that when we first met he spent a lot of time and energy on me. Then it went from a lot to nothing in a matter of a week.

Hey Pins, who said my husband was my twin? <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> He's a good man though & was a great partner for that phase of my life. He was a soulmate & we both remembered the same past life independently from each other. Hopefully we mended some of the karma this time round.

The good news is you have loads of time to check that your bond with your man is strong enough. Also that you ditched the boyfriend with a violent temper- never put up with that sort of behaviour! Patience...

Skystars, I reckon send that card, just don't make it too smooshy <img src="/images/graemlins/kiss.gif" alt="" /> He'll be back if it's meant to be, but you may need to wait a while.

I am curious if anyone has had dreams of themselves in past lives? I had never experienced this until I met the man I am pretty sure is my twin flame. Since then I have very vivid dreams of us in our past lives together. So far only two lives have been revealed through dreams. I shouldn't say ONLY two. I am thankful for being able to see that many so vividly.

This can happen Skystars. We can receive lots of psychic information in dreams as we are most open at night. I did a shamanic journey to take a look at a past life I'd experienced where I'd had a relationship with my ex husband. When I started to tell him about it he stopped me midway & told me the rest- he'd seen it in detail in a dream.