We have dated for a year. When we weren't working, we were together constantly, at his request. In the beginning he pursued me and was the most courteous, respectful person I had ever met. He treated me like a queen. As our relationship grew, he would become distant at times. He would push me away, only to pull me back in like nothing had happened. He absolutely refused to talk about our relationship, yet made plans for "our" future together. We finally got to the point of moving in together, at his request, and then he really pushed me away. He became critical and treated me in a way that made it impossible for me to continue to see him. No arguments, he just bailed. I still don't understand.