Hello Razorannie,
I'm glad you're here.
There are no wrong answers! This is about what the verses say to you.
(The only rules in this thread are that we treat the Bible as the TRUE word of God -that includes one God and Savior- and that we don't go into debate. I want pleasant feelings not anger.)
I find that some of Paul's writings are very wordy and hard to understand. I like to consult a couple different translations and maybe a commentary to get an understanding.
But the best help comes from the Holy Spirit. It is helpful to pray before reading a passage - asking for understanding.
I just re-read your post.
4. I think God's promise is our guarentee.
I like that answer. God's promise should be guarantee enough!!