How can or what do i need to do to get my girl friend to be affectionate ,romantic, show intrest. All of the above. She acts like love is another 4 letter word ..........Can someone please help me ........

They affectionate One

gcharros,
You can't make someone love you or be affectionate toward you. If this is what you crave in a relationship (most do) then maybe you should look for someone who will show you in many ways. A good relationship is one that just works---there is a great connection and showing affection toward a partner should be as automatic as breathing.
Dinah