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#113147 - 08/19/02 07:03 PM
Re: Can just images be "bad"?
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I don't know that looking at pictures about something makes you more likely to do it, if you already have that mental state. If you're say a female adult that has a tendency towards enjoying romance, and you read a lot of romantic novels and look at romantic pictures, that might "fulfill" your romantic needs. You may be less demanding for it in your own life. If you love Alaska, then you could read books about Alaska and watch movies about it and this might give you enjoyment of it without having to move there.
The basic need is there, like hunger or thirst, and you choose how you quench it.
Being a pedophile isn't something you just sort of take up casually, it's a real disorder, a craving. A bad one, sure. But kids are all around, and books exist. The 'reminders' I guess. The craving won't just go away. So I guess the question is, if someone is going to have those cravings, maybe it's better that that someone 'lessens' them (soothes them?) by looking at computer generated images, where no harm is caused. If instead those cravings go unmet, they might get soothed in another more harmful manner ...
There have been cultures through history that haven't considered these cravings 'bad', but that might be too touchy a discussion to get into.
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#113149 - 08/21/02 08:15 PM
Re: Can just images be "bad"?
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I can certainly understand that, and protecting our children is one of those primary driving forces <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> And I suppose I agree with the argument that an adult that has an interest in harming children shouldn't be allowed near children. So whether this person enjoys thinking about whacking children with a ruler, or teasing them until they cry, or about doing sexual things, those are all "harmful acts" and the fact that the adult derives pleasure from the thought of them means they probably shouldn't be involved with kids.
So there should be some sort of an evaluation for any teacher or girl scout leader or camp person that screens for all of those things and excludes those who match.
But I don't know that we can just make a blanket statement about all adults, everywhere in the world, and say that no adult can have these thoughts. The idea of Thought Police is a very, very scary one. Thought Police always start out thinking they know what is best and soon they are making more and more judgements. So I guess I feel if some adult somewhere wants to have those sorts of thoughts and doesn't deal with kids, that's their business. Yes, we'd punish them if they harmed a child, but if a child isn't being harmed, we can't punish them just for thinking ...
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