Michelle, when are you planning this trip? A friend of mine just got back a few weeks ago, I'll ask her what hotel they stayed at (they drove down).
Another friend of mine, about two years ago flew down on a package deal. For four people (2 kids, 2 adults) they flew down, stayed at a Disneyland hotel, had their admission tickets paid for (got to go into the park when it was officially closed to the public), free breakfasts and some other freebies...all for $2000.00 - 2500.00. They didn't need a car since a train/tram went from their hotel to Disneyland. And they had unlimited admission to the parks, so they could go in the morning, come back and rest, then head out again in the evening.
If you are ever interested in DisneyWorld, they have some wonderful deals too that include the airfare and hotel, etc. for either DL or DW, look on the Internet (through Expedia.com or some other travel business) or go to travel agency directly. Try Travelocity.com too. Have you tried just typing in Disneyland and seeing what pops up?
Good luck!