Ditto to everything Terri and Lisa wrote: make time for the important people and things - the time for laundry, cleaning, car detailing, etc., will come!!
We are clean people, but the laundry basket may still be full and sitting in the laundryroom when you stop in or the dishwasher may be going..... taking time for your spouse (and later, even separating time for the "family" to be together) makes all the difference in your family, YOUR life and an indelible impression on your spouse and your (future??) children!!!!
Prime Time Kitty