Let me first start by saying this is my first post on the board, so if this is in the wrong forum, I apologize ahead of time and will gladly move it. I'm not sure where to start, but my husband has drawn the line with his pornography. We have been married for two years this August, and have been together for five. I would be lieing if I said that this is a new problem, however, now it a crucial time for us, and this problem is beyond acceptable. My husband and I are trying to have a baby, we have been trying for the last year, and with no success started seeing a doctor in late Jan. for fertility testing. I was diagnosed with PCOS which explains alot of our fertility problems. However, I also feel that my husbands constant addiction to porn and masturbating is also a part of the problem. He cannot go a couple of days without doing it. This week he has to go get a sperm analysis test done, so we had sex on Sunday morning, but he had to be clean for three days. So we didn't have sex, and he says no mast. & porn either. So yesturday he went and got the test done, which requires him to mast. OK FINE! So I was hoping maybe we could have sex last night or tonight, last night I was not feeling good... so I had high hopes for tonight. Only I opened the computer this morning to find redtube.com amaeatur porn site on the screen, to top it off, it was incongnito (new google accessorie) which means he was trying to hide it. So he could not even wait 1 freaking day and he was jacking off!!!!! ONE DAY!!! When I confront him with this issue, and tell him how much it hurts and bothers me all he says is "I have no excuses", " I have nothing to say".... This has been going on for 5 years, he bringst he laptop in the bathroom, and if he can't have the laptop he will sit in the office and do it... and when I shut the internet off about a year ago, he used his CELL PHONE!!!!!! I really don't know what to do. I am not against pornography and I believe that masturbation is natural. But there becomes a point where it is excessive and five - six days a week is excessive. I can't put up with it anymore!! There have even been times when I will be sitting on the bed in the bedroom, and you can hear that he is doing it in the bathroom (our bathroom is joining), I mean I am sitting right there!!!