I have to say I'm more in Nicki's frame of mind than anything. When I see someone who's very overweight eating something horrible for them, I get the same feeling as when I see someone hacking out a lung but is a smoker. Sure, they're obviously addicted to their poison of choice, but it makes it no less sad and frustrating.

Lisa, it really sounds like your guy has to do some digging and find out what exactly he's trying to bury with that food. He's sabotaging himself because it's easier than working on the problem that's behind it. (I know how you feel in a way. My guy's a smoker, and WANTS to quit, and has tried a few times but he keeps going back to it).