Verynicebecky-
Well, since you originally quoted me when you started this, I think I should respond.

First of all, I was in no way bashing moms or SAHM. I love kids, I have nieces and nephews I adore and I would never trash a woman's decision to have children. I have just decided that it is not for me. I am not highly career oriented. I only work part-time presently.
My mom was a SAHM and I'm grateful for that. My parents are incredible people. I think being a full time mom is quite respectable as long as the woman does not lose her identity in her children. I've seen women give up all of their other interests when they have kids and it's sad. I've also seen women who were able to be great mothers and still have their own interests aside from that. I think that's healthier.