I know how you feel. i am 22 and i lost my baby 3 weeks ago. this was my first pregancy. for me the pain is about the same was the day i found out. i found myself thinking that i was to blame. i even yelled and crying. why did this have to happen. if i did never to cause it why did it. I dont think a lot a people can give you that answer. I found that going back to work helped but i still have hard days where i dont even want to get up. we dont have a support group where i live i am glad there is this